KAUA’I ELOPEMENT Guide / SMALL WEDDING AND HONEYMOON GUIDE

The ultimate guide on how to get married on Kaua’i

Finally one from someone who actually lives here, actually eloped here and has helped hundreds of couples elope here too.

KAUA’I ELOPEMENT Guide / SMALL WEDDING AND HONEYMOON GUIDE

The ultimate guide on how to get married on Kaua’i

Finally one from someone who actually lives here, actually eloped here and has helped hundreds of couples elope here too.

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elopement guide table of contents

Why I wrote this guide

I want your Kaua’i wedding day to be just as epic as mine was.

And I wanted couples to have a Kaua’i wedding and elopement guide that was written by someone who actually lives here, actually knows how to create an epic Kaua’i wedding actually knows all the best elopement vendors to recommend to you and actually loves their couples and the island enough to be honest and do it all legally.

TLDR; Lots of photographers have a Kaua’i elopement guide but not all of them are to be trusted…

There are a lot of Kaua’i Elopement Guides, most written by photographers who live thousands of miles away and want to add Hawai’i to their “bucket list” of dream locations they want to visit.

While I admire their hustle in putting together these “guides” and trying to be known as experts of a place they’ve only got a bit of googling or 6 days worth of experience with, I am seeing some serious issues with their elopement guides.

For people calling themselves experts there is a LOT of;

Mis-spelled sacred Hawaiian place names
Photos of elopements in illegal locations or suggestions that off limits areas would be the “most epic elopement ceremony spot ever”
Claiming that _____ fill in the blank shave ice or officiant or pretty much any category they list is THE BEST, when in reality they have only had that one shave ice or met that one officiant and therefore really don’t have the experience to make that claim
Geotagging locations so they become overrun and sometimes closed off to public use

Promoting super “Instagram worthy” things to photograph like renting a camper van or hiring an elaborate luxury picnic setup on the beach that are restricted here and that upset the locals
Claiming to know all the “locals secret, off the beaten path spots”. OK, #1 No one who spent 6 days on island knows spots that those of us who live here don’t. And #2 Usually these spots are quiet and you don’t see a million pictures of them because weddings and photoshoots are not allowed at them or it’s considered disrespectful by local residents… trust me, if a spot is totally epic and super quiet and it’s legal and respectful to shoot there the rest of us would shoot there.

I am in private Facebook groups with thousands of photographers and I see what is going on behind the scenes.

The average destination elopement photographer traveling for a wedding does 40 hours of research and the couples who hire them are paying for that research.

When hiring local all that research is not a factor because I live here and I’ve done this for hundreds of couples here on Kaua’i. I’m experienced, not leaning on Google and facebook for ideas.

I also see the research they do, and taking advice in random facebook vacation groups from people who don’t know but are eager to weigh in is concerning for the couples trusting in their expertise.

And to add icing to the cake they often use chatgpt or hire someone to write the guide for them…. so these well meaning but inaccurate words are not even theirs…

I’m not trying to be mean, you have to appreciate how hard they are hustling to become known as an expert in an area they have no or very little experience with and how hard they will work to get free vacations but you deserve better.

To be fair, some of them truly do learn enough to do things legally and their photos are beautiful but it’s so hard for couples to tell who is legit because often the ones saying the most about being legal and respectful and even selling courses to teach other photographers how are the ones I see breaking the rules and lying the most.

So it felt really important to provide you with a Kaua’i Elopement guide from an actual local, who actually eloped on island and who has helped hundreds of other couples have an elopement as epic as mine…

And every single word you’ll read is from me, I am a no AI zone 😉

And so without further anticipation, let’s plan a wedding!

HOW YOU GET MARRIED MATTERS…

How do I know a Kaua’i elopement is the best way to get married?? Because I did… and it totally was!

This is me, saying “I Do” under a waterfall.

We had the most un-rushed experience imaginable. There were tears and laughter and inside jokes and total nonsense and deep emotion and fish tacos and we got soaking wet and it was everything I could have dreamed of and more.

An elopement is absolutely anything and everything you want it to be and absolutely nothing you don’t.

Eloping means:
NO RULES
NO PRESSURE
NO STRESS
NO “SHOULDS”

One epic, perfect day of life to be remembered for life.

Not everyone is brave enough to choose the elopement they crave over the tradition of a big, formal wedding.

The fact that you are reading this means you are absolutely and completely EPIC

I’m just gonna say the thing you’re not supposed to say, because that’s how I roll 🙂
Your wedding day should be 100% about YOU.

You deserve to craft a ceremony and a celebration that you can look back on with pride for the epic and authentic elopement and marriage you created. And what better way to begin marriage than by getting completely lost in Kaua’i, in each other and in what makes you, you. After all, marriage is what this is really all about. I have couples ask all the time if they can do this or that or is it ok to do an idea they just shared with me. You have PERMISSION (not that you need permission) to do absolutely anything that makes you happy. It’s your day and it does not belong in a box.

You’re eloping because you’ve chosen to be yourself

why not really embrace that and dream big for your day of celebration?

Start by dreaming up what you want most on your wedding day, whether that’s bare feet in the sand, mountain views, palm trees, hiking, dancing, adventure, cake, fish tacos, a couples massage, a gourmet meal or champagne at sunset.

Once you know your “must haves” you can choose a location, the activities and adventures, and decide what you want photographic evidence of so you can relive it all again and again.

Each elopement is unique and you can design an elopement that is one of a kind.

The day is yours!

Nothing required of you…
No one’s expectations to fulfill…
No one, including yourself “shoulding” all over you.
Nothing but relaxed, carefree intimacy and fun.
It’s your chance to truly connect with what you and your partner are all about.
Does waking up at o’dark thirty to stand in awe of the first rays of sunrise peeking over the ocean make you feel alive?
Is boarding a helicopter to fly off to a hidden waterfall exciting to you?
Have you always dreamed of riding horses through the mountains or along the beach?
Do you get your highs from adrenaline junkie thrills?
Does the idea of playing golf in your wedding gown seem crazy fun?
Is your idea of romance a picnic in a secluded cove or a private chef and candles on the lanai?
There really are no limits.

Your Ultimate Kaua’i Elopement Checklist

I’ll be sharing a lot more tips and tricks and details on all of this but here is a quick checklist to refer back to as you plan this epic day

Choose your time of year
Book your photographer (you want to be sure the one you love is available and the right local photographer can make everything else so easy! Pssst… I know a pretty good local one 😉 )

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Book hotel
Book rental car
Book officiant
Book stylist
Book florist
Book musicians, cake etc
Choose your location (if using a venue like a botanical garden book it)
Make marriage license appointment
Fill out online marriage license forms (if within one year of wedding date)
Book any special dinners (some of the nice restaurants book up months in advance)
Book important excursions (some, like the tubing can be booked out months ahead)
Say yes to the dress! And shop for other wedding attire
Shop for rings
Shop for jewelry / gifts to exchange if desired
Write your vows
Have the BEST day of your life
Live epically ever after!

Get to know this epic little island

My personal philosophy is that no drive is too far for an epic adventure and cherished memories…

But having said that, I want you to be aware of all the details so you can weigh your options.

Your dream elopement day timeline may not include driving for 2 hours in your wedding dress to your ceremony site and then 2 hours back to your resort after dark before you get to eat dinner and enjoy your wedding night.

Your dream location for sunrise portraits may not be as dreamy if the drive time means a 2am wake up call… and maybe it still is for you – but you need the details to make informed plans.

I’m here to help you with that!

The island has 4 main areas to stay and 1 highway that does not go all the way around the island. Why can’t you drive a loop around the island you ask? Because of the Na Pali Coast. Seeing it by beach, hiking, on a boat or in a helicopter is an absolute must and when you see it you’ll understand why you’ll be backtracking on the road you drive in on.

North Shore

The North shore is home to Hanalei and Princeville and is lush green and surrounded by mountains. You’ll find the iconic Hanalei Pier, botanical gardens, a lighthouse, the start of the famed Kalalau Trail and some of the most gorgeous scenery you’ve ever seen. The North shore is the rainier part of the island in winter and can get huge winter waves while summer time can mean calm waters.

south side

The South side is where you’ll find Poipu with abundant vacation rentals, hotels, shopping and plenty of sunshine. Botanical gardens, blowholes, Kipu Ranch adventures, ziplining, beautiful beaches and truly gorgeous seacliffs surround this part of the island.

east side

The Coconut Coast is centrally located between the North and South sides to make your drives shorter when out exploring. Stunning sunrises, some great hikes, a beautiful paved coastal bike / walking path and lots of hotel and shopping options make Kapaa a great home base for your visit and Lihue, home of the airport and Kalapaki Bay is super close by too.

west side

The West side is more dry and arid and the gateway to Waimea Canyon and Koke’e State Parks. Most visitors stay on the other areas of the island because the West side is a long drive and lacking the visitor amenities of the other sides but a trip out here for the scenery is a must during your stay!

Kaua’i Map

driving distances

From LIHUE

Kapaa 11 miles (20 min)
Princeville 28 miles (45 min)
Hanalei 32 miles (50 min)
Poipu 13 miles (25 min)
Kokee State Park 40 miles
(1 hr 30 min)

from Kapaa

Princeville 22 miles (35 min)
Hanalei 26 miles (1 hr)
Lihue 11 miles (20 min)
Poipu 23 miles (45 min)
Kokee State Park 50 miles (1hr 45 min)

From PRINCEVILLE

Kapaa 22 miles (35 min)
Lihue 30 miles (50 min)
Poipu 43 miles (1 hr 15 min)
Kokee State Park 69 miles
(2 hr 10 min)
Haena 12 miles (30 min)

from poipu

Lihue 13 miles (25 min)
Kapaa 23 miles (45 min)
Princevillle 43 miles (1 hr 15 min)
Hanalei 45 miles (1 hr 20 min)
Kokee State Park 36 miles
(1 hr 20 min)

Drive times are approximate and can be much longer in traffic, especially heading South or through Kapaa town in the afternoons.

Kaua’i Weather

Whatever you do, do NOT look at the weather forecast, LOL

I get countless emails, messages and phone calls from panicked couples who looked at the Kaua’i weather forecast and saw rain listed.

The conditions are very rarely as bad as they sound on generic weather sites and I’ve never been prevented from getting someone married and taking their picture.

My best reassurance:

I promise that I want the weather to be amazing for your wedding just as much as you do – happy couples and gorgeous pictures are good for business :)!
I can’t make guarantees but I’ll always be honest when I think it will work out just fine or when I think we should adjust.

My best resources:

For webcams to see the Kaua’i conditions in real time click the links below.
North shore Webcam – Hanalei Colony Resort (hcr.com)
South side – Poipu

Let’s look at AVERAGES

Each week on Kaua’i is unique and although averages give us a good idea of what to expect, we may see a week in December full of blue skies and sunshine or a week in April full of rain.

And a single day may bring sun, rain, overcast, clear and a rainbow – sometimes all at once!

Rain is rarely island wide and some areas get more rain than others

TIPS ABOUT RAIN ON KAUA’I

1. Nighttime Rain

It’s much more common for Kaua’i rain to happen over night than during the day.

2. Short showers

It’s rare for Kaua’i to see all day rain, short, passing showers are much more common.

3. South side is drier

On many rainy days in Hanalei if we drive South we find the sun.

Some areas of the island are much rainier than others. The heaviest rainfall is in and near Mount Wai’ale’ale Crater at the center of the island.

Why Kaua’i RAIN is a good thing

Rainbows

Kaua’i is known for rainbows and we cannot have all these amazing rainbows without a little rain.

Waterfalls

Kaua’i is known for her stunning waterfalls and the rainier winter season means more waterfalls than we can count while the dry summer months may reduce them to a trickle.

Lush Green

Kaua’i is know as “The Garden Island” and all the lush green gorgeousness which makes it so special is due to the rain blessings which cover Kaua’i with flowers and fruits

And the added bonus is that in Hawai’i, rain is genuinely considered a blessing on your wedding day and blessings from the island are a beautiful thing.

kaua’i weather & Photography

Despite Kaua’i being known for rain, it’s surprising how rarely rain is a problem for a wedding or photo session. I can only remember a few times having rain really impact a elopement and they are mostly shown here and are honestly some of my favorite memories.

How my couples and I have managed rainy wedding days:

Some delay their start times and locations and find success and stay dry by tweaking the plan,

One couple had their first look in the resort’s valet stand (bet you would not have known that by my picture!) and finally got their beach photos later that morning,

Some couples stick to the plan but just say I do and take their photos between showers,

One couple had to pause their beach ceremony 4 times to hide under an umbrella and then saw 4 rainbows and spent all day taking pictures across the island with me in the sun,

And a couple of epic couples simply said their vows in the rain and we were all 3 soaked but absolutely moved by the beauty of it.

What I love most about the photos above ih how full of joy these epic humans are despite some rain on their wedding day!

KAUA’I IS FULL OF SURPRISES…

every day is a beautiful day when we go with her flow

Pictured here are two different sunsets on the same South side location.

Both days were very overcast and stormy all day and I worried about these sessions being rained out.

I remember telling both couple’s that I was sure we would not get a sunset that evening but at least it had stopped raining long enough for us to take pictures.

For the first image after an hour of creating beautiful pictures against rather bland, gloomy looking skies, suddenly a tiny spot of soft pink appeared in a lighter could so I quickly repositioned them to capture what I feared was the only color we would see and within 5 minutes the entire sky was so pink if I were not there I’d have thought it was fake..

For the second image, the sky maintained this moody shade until it was completely dark.

Two very different and very blessed evenings for two very happy couples…

Overcast skies make for flattering and even light for portraits and can mean more dramatic, more colorful sunrise and sunset skies.

There is no such thing as an ugly day on Kaua’i…

I can’t wait to see what the Kaua’i weather looks like on your elopement day!

Where to Stay

Your home away from home on Kaua’i should be high on your to do list because we do have times when pretty much every room on island is booked and you don’t want to miss out on this epic trip! I’ll point you toward the finest options available for a honeymoon splurge and some more middle of the road spots for those of us who are ballin’ on a budget.

IMPORTANT NOTE:

We have some amazing Airbnb / VRBO offerings here but most of them don’t allow events so if you are dreaming of having your freinds and family join for a vacation rental celebration be sure to confirm it’s allowed before booking. I do have a few amazing options that allow weddings I’ll share below to get your started.

Wedding Friendly Vacation Rentals

HALE MANA KAUA’I
This estate has a huge home, a pool and a wedding deck the bluff looking over the sea. Sleeps 10

PURE KAUA’I – SEA SONG
This home has a beautiful cliff overlooking a bay for ceremony. Sleeps 8

THE KOBAYASHI HOUSES ON HANALEI BAY
This option can be a great spot for a ceremony on the lawn and a tented reception space. Sleeps up to 25 if all 5 houses are rented.

In addition to the options above which have great spaces for ceremony, a search of VRBO with a filter for events allowed and guest size will offer several properties where your friends and family can stay together and have a catered wedding night celebration.

most luxurious resorts

Grand Hyatt – South Side

Koa Kea – South Side

Koloa Landing – South Side

Timbers Kaua’i – Lihue

1Hanalei – North shore

Mid-Range Best Bets

South Side

Sheraton Kaua’i
Kiahuna Plantation

Lihue

Royal Sonesta
Kaua’i Beach Resort

Kapaa

Sheraton Coconut Beach
Aston Islander
Waipouli Beach Resort
Kaua’i Coast Resort at the Beach Boy
ISO

North Shore

Hanalei Bay Resort
Pali Ke Kua
Sealodge
Ali’i Kai
Hanalei Colony Resort

Vacation Rentals By Owner

This Facebook group is all Kaua’i rentals listed directly by the owner and has tons of options. Kaua’i Vacation Rentals By Owners | Facebook

And these properties are owned by close friends of mine – they are wonderful humans providing for their families and I love to support them!

Home | Oceanside Retreat (acabalka.wixsite.com) – Kapaa

Spacious Ocean View Ground Level Sunny Side Poipu – Condominiums for Rent in Koloa, Hawaii, United States – Airbnb – Poipu

Ocean View Poipu Penthouse w/ 1600 SF Private Deck – Condominiums for Rent in Koloa, Hawaii, United States – Airbnb – Poipu

Getting Around

I highly recommend renting a car to make the most of your time on Kaua’i! It’s a small island but you’ll be so limited if you are relying on just walking and public transportation which is fairly limited here.

I am a big fan of Turo and use it whenever I travel. I’ve always had good luck and I love not waiting in the lines at the rental car agencies (which at times have hours long lines here). I do hear some people having really smooth and easy experiences with the major rental car companies when they have upgraded memberships to skip the lines so it depends on your circumstances I suppose.

My fave Turo host is a good friend who has a dozen vehicles to offer. It’s another way to help support an amazing local family!

see what turo has to offer

do you need a jeep?

Honestly… nope. I know that’s contrary to the popular advice and opinions and if you really want one you should totally get one but for the places that visitors generally go they are not truly needed and for the places that they are needed I don’t advise trying to go.
The location that causes most people to argue this point is Polihale State Park which is a beach at the end of a very long, very rough dirt road that can be downright ridiculous when it’s muddy or has not been cared for in a while.

The thing about Polihale is that most of the rental cars strictly prohibit driving to it in the rental contract so most of the visitors doing so are violating their rental agreements. Some rentals have tracking devices installed so they can track this and cancel the contract if it happens. Getting stuck at Polihale is not all that uncommon and most tow trucks will not come help you and if you can find one that will expect a $1000 bill.

Just want to be sure everyone has all the info when making choices so they can make good choices 🙂

A Note on Campervans

This is one of those often unpopular opinions but I’m the one who’s here to give you actual intel on everything and to help protect the island so I have to tell you that renting a campervan here is not a good idea.

I know, I know, they are sooooo “Instagram worthy” and fun and adventurous and the idea of waking up on the beach to the sound of the waves lapping the shore out your window is pretty epic and I totally get it. I love road tripping and camping in them when I’m on the mainland and in a place where it’s allowed. But Kaua’i is not one of those places.

Yes, there are a few people renting them, yes, people do rent them, yes, photographers do photoshoots with their couples in them. No, they are usually not legal or welcome by the locals. Kaua’i has bans on camping in vehicles so the only place it’s actually legal to sleep in them is on private land which leaves two campgrounds that are not on State or County property – Camp Naue in Haena and Kumu Camp in Anahola. The folks renting them out are not usually honest about this unfortunately so they set folks up to have issues because some of the local residents are getting very upset about the illegal camping and we have seen slashed tires and people woken up in the middle of the night.

I don’t want to give folks the wrong impression about the island, these sorts of issues are rare and directed at disrespectful behaviors. Kaua’i is a place of aloha and respect and those who visit with these in their hearts are greeted with the most beautiful aloha and blessings in return, so you have no reason to fear.

beach elopement locations

There’s really nothing like the feeling of saying your vows barefoot with the sand between your toes and the sound of the sea flowing in and out besides you… I highly recommend experiencing it!

All beaches in Hawai’i are State land, no beach can be privately owned which is a pretty amazing thing! The privilege of having access to all this epic sand comes with restrictions on commercial use which means we have some rules to follow.

Not all beaches on Kaua’i are allowed for wedding ceremonies but the good news is there are tons of legal options. Here are a few of the most popular choices to get you started. I have a super in depth location guide I send to my couples after they book me with lots of other options and hidden gems – I would love to show you and help you choose the perfect spot!

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Makua Beach ( Tunnels ) – North shore

This is a stunning location but it is a bit of a drive and the parking is extremely limited so it is a spot for couples who are eloping without guests.

Hanalei Bay – North shore

Hanalei Bay is absolutely iconic and can be a great choice. Ceremonies are not allowed to the right hand or South side of the pier or on the pier but with additional permits couples photos can be done here. For the elopement ceremony the best bet is to go to one of my quiet spots away from the crowds near the pier and then get those epic couples photos by the pier before or after the ceremony.

Anini Beach – NorthEast side

With one of the longest fringing reefs in Hawai’i just off shore the water here can be beautifully calm and although its a narrow beach there are places to spread out along the coast line so it’s a popular and easy access area.

Shipwrecks Beach – South Side

The best beach elopement ceremony spot on the popular Poipu side of the island is a large beach so it does not feel crowded if you know how to do it right, which I do ;)! Close to some of the best resorts and restaurants and on the drier, sunnier side of the island makes it a convenient and safe choice.

I would love to show you more epic elopement location options too, email me for all the inside scoop and options!

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non-beach elopement locations

As amazing as a beach wedding ceremony is, there are compelling reasons to choose a ceremony spot off the sand. And you can still go create some epic couples portraits on the beach before or after the ceremony to have allll the scenery variety!

Non beach locations can offer dramatic scenery, are sometimes less windy than the beach, sometimes have shade that can make the photos and the experience so much nicer and offer decor that is not allowed due to required beach wedding permits.

Since Arches and chairs and other super photogenic setups are not allowed on the beach, these locations allow you to have your Kaua’i elopement with the decor you dream of and the comfort for your guests to be seated.

Group size is also a factor because the beach wedding permits only allow for 30 people maximum and that includes all your vendors. So non beach locations give couple’s with a guest list over 25 a way to have ceremony.

Hanalei Bay Resort – North Shore

On a gorgeous bluff surrounded by the epic Hanalei mountains and easy access to a stunning beach for portraits after ceremony.

Westin Princeville – North Shore

A beautiful lawn with two big Palm trees framing you on the bluff over the sea.

Na Aina Kai Botanical Gardens – North Shore

A lagoon with a small waterfall, Bamboo, a Mahogany Forest and a dramatic bluff high over the sea mean lots of scenery variety and it’s so nice and quiet there.

Private North Shore Waterfall – North Shore

Surrounded by huge trees and endless greenery and pops of flower color, this spot is so dreamy and the only way to have a waterfall all to yourself on Kaua’i. Where I had my own ceremony.

Smith’s Gardens – East Side

An affordable venue with several ceremony spots by their lagoon. They also have an excellent Luau for a memorable and non traditional reception alternative.

Allerton McBryde Botanical Gardens – South Side

Have ceremony on a big meadow under huge trees or by their waterfall. Very close to the epic South side seacliffs for amazing portraits after ceremony.

ways to make your elopement feel special

Eloping does not mean throwing away the idea of having a super special day that is a dream come true… getting married this way is NOT less of a reason to celebrate or to go all out… in fact, because it’s all about you it opens up even more options for creating unforgettable memories!

Here are a few ideas to get you started dreaming up what this day could feel like:

Bring on the sentimental touches –
Exchange gifts
Exchange letters you wrote to one another
Write letters to exchange on your 1 year anniversary
Ask friends and family to write letters and read them together
Write your own personal vows – whether it’s a few words spoken off the top of your head (totally what my hubby did) or 3 pages based on the lyrics of your song (yeah, that was me, lol, it’s a beautiful and personal addition to this day)
Lei making – imagine hand making the lei you will place on each during your ceremony and then keeping it forever. I have two incredible Hawaiian officiants who will teach you how before your ceremony
Get baptized together in the ocean – I had a couple do this recently during their elopement ceremony and it was one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever witnessed.

Keep some “traditional” elements –

First dance
Cake cutting – or be creative and cut a pineapple together!
Toast (alcohol is not allowed on the beach but a cider toast is!)

Plan an activity:

Have a picnic (the super luxury setups you see on Pinterest are not allowed on the beach but I do have some private property options for that Instagram worthy setup and a blanket and a backpack full of charcuterie is never a bad idea)
Hit up one of my fave food trucks for some of the best coffee, shave ice or gourmet Taro donuts on island
Try out paddle boarding
Take a surf lesson
Go kayaking
Get some cute water floaties and hit the ocean
Have an epic helicopter adventure (there are even a couple of landing options for an epic photoshoot)
Rent beach cruisers for a coastal path bike ride
Go horseback riding
Take a hike

Trash the dress photoshoot! I even have a collection of wedding dress for you to get wet if you want to keep yours dry!

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Photographer

Pro Tip – this is a really imporant decision.

My biggest piece of advice on this topic is to choose someone whose work, and personality you adore. I’ve seen so many situations where couples choose the cheapest option, or the first name they see recommended instead of truly researching the choice and it just breaks my heart hearing how much they dislike their photos or the experience they had. I actually do a lot of sessions in wedding attire for couples who want to finally have the wedding photos they didn’t end up with on their wedding day.

We all have very different ways of shooting, composing and editing our photos and of posing, interacting with and serving our couples and it is so much easier to hire the right fit for you first rather than trying to talk an artist into changing their editing style later, or asking if they have a shot that they didn’t cut your feet off in or begging them to edit the dude in the neon speedo out of the background.

There are two big considerations to this decision; how your photos will look and how you will feel while taking them and be treated throughout the entire process.

I know photographers who are the most incredible humans, have hearts of gold and treat people incredibly but don’t take very good pictures. I know photographers whose photos are absolute works of art but it’s really awkward being around them. And I know photographers who will flat out lie to your face or fail to deliver the photos and behave abusively to clients.

I would absolutely love to capture your elopement memories for you but I am not the right fit for everyone and I want you to adore your photos more than I want a sale so please pick someone you are thrilled to work with because you deserve better than just good enough! And I happy to refer you to someone who is perfect for you if I’m not 🙂

I am here for you if my style makes you smile 🙂

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First looks

Spoiler alert, they are awesome!

What is a first look? Why do I want one? Explain yourself!
A first look is a private moment before your ceremony when your spouse-to-be gets to see you for the first time and you have the time and freedom to just be yourselves and savor the feelings.

Traditionally the groom will first see the bride as she walks down the aisle, but eloping is not traditional and you have so many more epic options available! I mean, we don’t even have an aisle on the beach, lol.

Doing a first look before that ceremony entrance means it is just the two of you versus having the eyes of your friends and family on you. It means you can take all the time you want to connect to each other instead of seeing each other and then immediately starting the ceremony 2 seconds later.

First looks can be so meaningful and sweet and fun ( I have had some super fun couples do pranks during the first look!) and the pictures are amazing. And first looks can be for parents and children too, it’s not just something you can do with your future spouse.

Love the idea of doing a first look but have questions about the logistics of it? I am here to help!

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Hawai’i Marriage License

How to legally get married on Kaua’i –
Don’t worry – it’s super easy!
Here’s all the details for you, you’ll be on your honeymoon before you know it.

Simple steps to Kaua’i “just married” bliss

Step 1 – Apply for your marriage license. It’s all done online and I have all the links and details for you below
Step 2 – Set up a meeting with one of our awesome local marriage license agents
Step 3 – Meet up with your agent and grab your license
Step 4 – Say “I do!”
Step 5 – Live epically ever after

Start the application online HERE.
– Complete your application online
– Pay your $65 fee ($60 for your marriage license and the $5 application fee)
– Write down or screenshot your Authorization number (it’s on your payment receipt)

Now you’ll call to make an appointment with a Hawai’i marriage license agent who will give you your marriage license.

Here is the list of agents on Kaua’i:
HANALEI – Dayna Santos – (808) 378-4290
KOLOA – Ellen O’Connell – (808) 742-7305
KAPAA – Walter “Kamika” Smith III – (808) 635-5973, Email: kamika@smithsKaua’i.com
Darlene “Momi” Kapana – (808) 821-6887

It’s a quick and easy 10-15 minute meeting to verify everything and sign the papers.
You’ll both need to be there in person and have a valid ID with you, a driver’s license or passport is perfect.

Now all that’s left to do is have your elopement ceremony with one of Kaua’i’s epic wedding officiants and then it’s honeymoon time!

your elopement ceremony

The ceremony is the part of the day that actually makes you married – so it’s a pretty epic part of your day!

You deserve to have a ceremony that let’s you slow down and savor the moments and create something that does not just accomplish the goal of getting you legally married but that creates feelings and memories you will cherish for life.
I am a huge fan of ceremonies with kissing before the kissing part, tears, laughing until you cannot breath, inside jokes and anything else that makes you feel like you!

I believe ceremony is so much more than just a piece of paper… and it can be so much more than you ever imagined it could be…

Here more about my ceremony experiences and advice.

Choosing Your KAHU

(That’s Hawaiian for OFFICIANT)

Your officiant can make the best day of your life even more amazing than you ever imagined it could possibly be… or so horribly awkward it caused me physical pain to watch them endure it- choose wisely. Your wedding ceremony is an extremely intimate experience and your officiant will be at the center of that. You want someone who;
~You feel comfortable with
~Shares your values or at least respects them
~Actually cares about ceremony and you as people (having someone who is just going through the motions joining you together for life won’t leave you with warm fuzzies).
~Operates legally (having your ceremony shut down will be memorable, but not epic…)

Can a friend or family member marry us?
Yes, with conditions…

They will need to be a registered performer in the State of Hawai’, details and application can be found here – Department of Health – Electronic Registration System (ehawaii.gov)

They will also have to acquire the liability insurance required by the State of Hawaii, apply in the Wiki Permitting Portal and pull a permit for your ceremony unless you’ve hired a local vendor who is taking care of the permitting for you.

I find that the most meaningful and enjoyable elopement ceremonies are the ones which the couple has carefully considered the personality of the officiant, the style of ceremony, the option of including Hawaiian traditions or island elements and how religious, spiritual or secular they prefer it to feel instead of just choosing the first name that pops up or the cheapest option on the list.

Having witnessed hundreds of wedding ceremonies from good to bad to ugly I am so passionate about the difference the right officiant makes.

FUN FACT!

Hawai’i wedding ceremonies do not require a witness
No blood test either!

Bridal Hair and Makeup

No matter how small, simple or adventurous your Kaua’i elopement day is, it deserves to feel special!

Professional styling truly does make a difference in the photos and pays off when investing in photography… and it makes the day feel more special to be pampered and do something out of the ordinary everyday routine.

THIS ISN’T A DAY FOR BEING PRACTICAL – IT”S A DAY FOR LOOKING YOUR MOST GORGEOUS AND FEELING GIDDY

I highly recommend these epic Kaua’i stylists!

check out my favorite stylists

Florals

Bouquets and haku / lei po’o (flower crowns) and flower circles – heart eyes!

Florals are one of those things that are necessary to get married, but the sure do make an elopement feel more special and bridal and tropical and add a little extra something to your wedding photos – I highly recommend them.

There’s nothing quite like fresh flowers in a tropical paradise to take things up a notch.

These local Kaua’i florists are absolutely amazing!

Check out my favorite florists

Cakes and Music and Dancers oh my

Eloping means no rules so you get to freely throw out any traditions you think are silly and that also means you get to have any traditions that are important to you and tweak them any way you desire.

If you cannot imagine your elopement day without a sweet treat I have some epic options that are your dream come true!

Nothing connects to the moment like music ~ Dau Voire

I have some amazing local connections to create beautiful ukulele or guitar music and song to your ceremony start and first dance and I even have options for hula and fire dancing for a truly memorable Hawaiian performance!

show me the epic options!

Elopement Planners and Complete Packages

Although a planner is not required to create an epic Kaua’i elopement day if you are looking for a wedding day experience that is as easy as getting dressed and showing up a planner makes for such a carefree and no stress process.

I can connect you to the very best options!

I WANT TO SEE THESE!

permits

It’s a common misconception that eloping means you are able to get married anywhere but Kaua’i has many areas which do not allow for elopement ceremonies and some that do not allow for any commercial activity, which means no photoshoots.

Permits range in price from $20 to $150 and since they require insurance to apply either your epic local photographer (that’s me, pick me!) or your local officiant will take care of these for you.

Restrictions for beach elopements apply too, such as;
No more than 25 guests, no arches, no chairs, no alcohol, no amplified music.
They are easy to follow and I know them well and am here to guide you into an epic and legal Kaua’i wedding experience.

Following the law, protecting the island and being pono to this land and its people are important to me so I will not photograph anywhere or anything that’s illegal. Sadly there are a lot of photographers from the mainland, and even sadder, some who live here, who will tell you they obtain permits and operate legally and absolutely are lying to you.

Pono is a beautiful Hawaiian word that means living “with a conscious decision to do the right thing in terms of self, others, and the environment”.

Safety First

I want you to have ridiculously epic looking elopement photos every bit as much as you do, but never at the sake of your safety and health.

I see some photographers, usually ones who don’t live here and truly know the island and our water, creating some stunning photos that make me really scared that someone is going to get hurt.

If I suggest picking your bride up and spinning her around and you just had back surgery, please tell me “No”!
If I ask you to get closer to the edge of the cliff and it feels uncomfortable to you, please speak up.
If you don’t know how to swim don’t plan to go paddle boarding in a ballgown.

It’s so important for you to feel comfortable at all times and to feel that you can communicate anything.

Teamwork makes your dream elopement work!

bride’s attire

What type of dress should I wear for an elopement?
Which type of dress is good for a beach elopement?
Can I wear a veil?

I see these questions asked every day in Facebook groups.

And I see people telling brides they cannot wear this or that and it legit breaks my heart…

If you’ve been reading this far you won’t be surprised to hear me say that I am Team “You’re a bride and you get to wear exactly what makes your heart skip a beat”

Is something light and flowy an easy, breezy beach choice? Absolutely.
Does something A-Line or in a stretch lace make an adventure elopement or photo session easier? Yep.
If you want something different than this is that ok? 100% YES!

And it will look EPIC with the Kaua’i scenery.

General tips

(in case “wear whatever you love” is not enough help 🙂

Chiffon and tulle are flowy and fun and can do epic things in the wind
Comfort is helpful – when you try your dress on bend over, sit, jump, throw your arms over your head and run around to see how it feels and imagine wearing it for hours
An A-Line silhouette is generally easier to move in but a good stretch lace can make a mermaid style gown super comfy as well (Grace Loves Lace is amazing at this)
Pay attention to how the straps feel and if they stay put – bad straps can drive a person crazy!

Getting married on a beach does not mean you have to have a super simple, beachy dress.

Obsessed with trains? My fave Kaua’i elopement photos include a long dramatic train – the sand will come out!

Love veils? Yes, the wind may make it a challenge but the pics are worth it and you don’t have to wear it the whole time.

Is flowy, feminine lace not your jam? One of my fave brides ever wore a super structured, architectural satin gown on the beach and I cannot imagine her wearing anything else – she nailed it!

Don’t want to wear white? Don’t!! My sister in law is a black wedding dress all the way girl and I have this purely epic blue gown on my elopement wish list I am just waiting for a bride to show up in 🙂

Dreaming of an adventurous elopement day but still love ball gowns? Girl, I promise we will make this work… and it will be awesome.

note on shoes

Getting married on the beach screams bare toes in the sand or cute white sandals and anything adventurous calls for practical over cute. But if you have a pair of killer shoes you have your heart set on I promise we will find a way to at least get a few shots with them 🙂

Barefoot Sandals
These are seriously such a gorgeous extra touch to your elopement day wardrobe and with options for crystals, pearls, colored ribbons, beads, chains or seashells there is a pair for every style of bride.

You’re a bride… choose something that makes you absolutely giddy!

groom’s attire

Dress up – You’ll look wicked sharp

I know, I’ve been telling you all this time that there are no rules – and that’s true.

But getting married in surf shorts and a t-shirt will make for a different feeling and photos then dressing up will create. If you dress up you’ll look soooo much better beside her wedding gown. It’s amazing how much a difference just pants over shorts and shoes over sneakers makes in your photos.

You can always take the jacket off, roll up your sleeves or ditch the tie as we go. Vests are a great option too.

Have fun with accessories
Suspenders are fun
Bowties are cool
Hats are epic
Bright colored ties are stylin’

Rock some color
Is a colored jacket or suit your style?
Shades of blues, green or burgundy is a great twist on the normal suit style.

Can you totally pull off houndstooth or plaid or another cool pattern? Get that cool vest.

Be YOU – you are awesome and as an elopement photographer I am all about unique details!

Pre-Wedding Tips

The day before your wedding

Try to not sunburn yourself lobster red :)!

Pick up your marriage license

Stay Hydrated

Get some rest – you have an epic day tomorrow

Take some time to talk and connect, bring it back to why you are doing this and everything you’ve been through to bring you to this point in time, in the tropical paradise that is Kaua’i, about to have a dream wedding day and commit to doing life together, forever.

elopement day Tips

the day of your elopement

SLOW DOWN, SAVOR THE DAY, GET LOST IN EACH OTHER… AND IN KAUA’I

This is the day you’ve been waiting for – cram absolutely as much connection, laughter, hugging, kissing, whispering, cuddling goodness into it as possible!

And then they lived EPICALLY ever after…

what does epically ever after look like?

Scenic and Colorful

Fun and Carefree

Romantic and Intimate

Ready To Become One Of These Happy Couples?

contact sandy today!

hiking on kaua’i

I absolutely live to hike and if you ask me what I want to do on a day off or a vacation the answer is always take a hike!

Kaua’i has some absolutely gorgeous hiking so if you and I have something in common you’ll be in heaven here.

It’s important to know that Kaua’i hiking can be a little, or a lot, more strenuous than people imagine it will be. Most of our hikes are steep, rocky and often really muddy and add to that heat and humidity and it can really be a workout and more than some are prepared for.

Trails are generally muddier in the winter but can be muddy any time of year depending on the recent weather.

The only hike that needs reservations is in Ha’ena State Park, home of the Kalalau Trail and Hanakapi’ai Beach and Hanakapi’ai Falls Trail.

Easy Hikes

Ke Ala Hele coastal path in Kapaa
0 -12 miles paved and ADA accessible

Wai Koa Loop to Stone Dam in Kilauea
5m round trip and mostly flat
(the dam is a waterfall)

Maha’ulepu Heritage Trail in Po’ipu
0-8 miles roundtrip and mostly flat and rocky

Waimea Canyon Lookouts in Waimea Canyon and Koke’e State Parks
1/4 mile each. (Must park on location, no reservations neede)

moderate Hikes

Moalepe/Kuilau in Kapaa
2-10 miles roundtrip and often muddy

Sleeping Giant in Kapaa
2-5 miles roundtrip depending on the trailhead and muddy with some scrambling

Waipo’o Falls in Waimea Canyon State Park
5 miles round trip and muddy with some scrambling

strenuous Hikes

Kukui Trail in Waimea Canyon
5 miles round trip with 2200 feet of elevation gain on exposed scree slopes in full sun

Awa’awapuhi Trail in Koke’e State Park
6.5 miles roundtrip with 1800 feet of elevation gain

Kalalau Trail in Ha’ena State Park (RESERVATION REQUIRED)
4 miles round trip and a river crossing to Hanakapi’ai Beach. 8 miles round trip and several river crossings to Hanakapi’ai Falls.
Be sure to get a pass or shuttle reservation in advance to Ha’ena State Park. No parking on the road near the entrance and no entry without a pass. www.gohaena.com

Kaua’i adventures

Kaua’i is one of those places where you can simply slow down and just “be” and embrace island time and chill to the max…

And the opportunities for epic adventure are endless!!

Here are some of my fave things to do to have the time of your life on your honeymoon:

Boat Tours of the Na Pali Coast

Unless you are terrified of being on the water or get really seasick, this is one of those must do Kaua’i activities! There is really no place like Na Pali and since that part of the island is so inaccessible that the boat offers views of scenery you cannot see any other way.

From inflatable rafts to catamarans with options for snorkeling and dinner at sunset, a day on the water is always a good idea.

The rafts and small catamarans, like Na Pali Experience has, can enter the sea caves along the coast in calm enough water – it’s amazing!

Deep Sea Fishing

Sitting in the fighting chair and battling to reel in a huge catch is such a trip! And you may get to see some dolphins or potentially whales in the winter time. There are several fishing charters available but our fave is www.gofishKaua’i.com

Kayak Na Pali Coast

This is a summertime only adventure when the sea is calm enough and requires permits if you plan to camp along the way and to be in pretty good shape. I would not suggest doing this without a licensed local guide. Check out these companies:

Na Pali Kayak
Na Pali Riders
Kayak Kaua’i

Helicopter Tour

This absolutely one of the #1 things to not miss on island, the view of scenery you cannot see in any other way is completely unbelievable! I think I have done it 8 times and I am always ready to go again – let’s goooooo!

There are numerous tour options that are mostly pretty similar in duration and where they fly, the differences tend to be more in the helicopter itself. Mauna Loa has a 1-3 seat option so every passenger gets a window seat to a 6 passenger option with 3 middle seats.

There is also one company, Island Helicopters, who lands at the Base of Manawaiopuna Falls, often referred to as Jurassic Falls from the helicopter landing scene in the first Jurassic Park movie.

My personal fave is Mauna Loa’s door off option! I LOVE going doors off! Jack Harter also has a doors off option and I love theirs too.

There are also small bi-plane options but I have not personally taken those so I cannot compare them.

horseback riding

We currently only have one company offering commercial rides – CJM Stables in Poipu and they are great! I actually used to train horses for a living and I have worked with them on several horseback weddings and photoshoots and their horses are very well cared for and I really enjoy their staff.

atv

Kipu Ranch offers some glimpses into the scenery from the movies Jurassic Park, Mighty Joe Young, The Descendants and Lilo and Stitch and takes you to hidden waterfalls to take a dip Kaua’i ATV offers rides along the rugged coastline on the Southside looking over the ocean.

scuba diving

I’ve been a diver for a long time and hubby finally got certified so I have someone to dive with again and we are frequently going out. If you are an experienced diver who has been to some world class dive destinations you’ll find that Kaua’i is not the best diving in the world. Rain and flooding combined with so many visitors not respecting the reefs and way too much chemical sunscreen mean that our reefs are not thriving the way I would prefer… but it’s still amazing to get down there and we use and love these dive shops on Kaua’i’s South side in Poipu –
• Dive Kaua’i
• Seasport Divers

sky diving

If you are craving an adrenaline rush Kaua’i Skydive is just the ticket and the views are pretty amazing as you come back to earth right beside that gorgeous turquoise sea. We had a blast with their team!

zip line

I mean, ziplining never gets old does it?! And if you have never tried it then I think it’s about time to start and Kaua’i is a pretty great place to check mark this off the bucket list 🙂

We have 4 options and they are all fun, check out descriptions of each to choose the one for you.

Outfitters Kaua’i – home of the longest zipline in the State of Hawai’i at 4000′ feet – this one is so fun! And you can go headfirst and race each other tandem on some of the lines. Also an option for a water zip, zip line right into the water hole and hang out for lunch!
Koloa Zipline – this is the longest course on Kaua’i with 8 lines total and a 2000′ long line, the second longest on island. Some lines allow you to ride tandem and race each other and you can go head first which is always fun!
Kaua’i Backcountry – 7 lines and a swimming hole and some of the best ziplining scenery of all the options make this a great choice.
Shaka Zipline – options for 5 or 8 lines that start small and work their way up, a great option for nervous beginner zipliners. The most affordable option on island.

Ono Grindz (Yummy Food)

What guide would be complete without me sharing with you all the best things to eat on Kaua’i?! You’ll be eating your way across the island in no time and enjoying every bite 🙂

Let’s talk wedding night dinner!

No matter how you choose to elope, chances are you’ll want a nice dinner to celebrate this epic occasion.

Here are some suggestions and ideas to help you figure out the best option for you

Romantic fine dining options:

South side –

Tidepools – on the lagoon at the Grand Hyatt
RumFire – at the Sheraton Kaua’i
RedSalt – at Ko’a Kea resort
Merrimans – in Kukui’ula shopping center
Eating House 1849 – in Kukui’ula shopping center

A note on The Beach House in Poipu – this is an extremely popular spot for a special occasion dinner. It’s not my first choice, and this is why. They have a fantastic sunset view and that is the biggest draw. Yes, their food is delicious, but the atmosphere is more chaotic than romantic. It is extremely busy and has so much going on and a wedding there almost every night so it does not have that relaxed vibe. Also, if you are getting married with a sunset timeline you’ll be creating epic sunset photos and miss that view there anyway. But it can be a great sunset view spot if you have a sunrise wedding

A luau or catamaran is an epic and memorable alternative!

Lihue –

Hualani – at Timbers resort
Gaylords – at Kilohana Plantation
Cafe Portofino – at Kalapaki Bay

Kapa’a –

J02
Hukilau Lanai

North Shore –

The Dolphin in Hanalei
1 Kitchen – at 1 Hanalei Bay resort
Bar Acuda in Hanalei

Some restaurants are not taking reservations at this time but I suggest trying to get one if possible, and call early as some book out months in advance.

Alternate ideas:

Maybe a fancy restaurant is not the end to your dream day. There are so many other fun options!

Hire a private chef to cook for you at your vacation rental, so much more intimate than a restaurant:

South side –

Auli’i Luau – the only ocean front luau on island
Grand Hyatt Kaua’i Luau – excellent show and food

Lihue –

Luau Kalamaku – authentic and on the gorgeous grounds at Kilohana Plantation

Kapa’a –

Smith Family Luau – very popular classic choice and the gardens are beautiful, go early and feed the peacocks and watch the imu ceremony

North Shore –

Tahiti Nui – very casual, laidback, local kine indoor luau. It’s very different from the size and production of the other luaus but is a fun party

Sunset Catamaran dinner cruise – the timing of these does not work for sunset weddings but is amazing for a sunrise wedding and is a very gorgeous alternative to a regular dinner.

Captain Andy’s, HoloHolo and Blue Dolphin are all amazing choices.

Have a dreamy luxury picnic setup after your sunrise elopement.

Unfortunately the adorable setups are not legal on the beach here with our commercial activity restrictions but they can be set up at your vacation rental and CJM Stables on the South side allows their land on the bluff with gorgeous views for this.

• Kaua’i Luxury Picnic

Get a charcuterie board and just go sit somewhere beautiful and bask in Kaua’i and married bliss together!

• Parma Kaua’i makes the yummiest and cutest boards

Here’s to an epic and delicious elopement day!!

Now for food for the rest of your honeymoon

here are a few of my faves in each important category

Breakfast

Kountry Kitchen in Kapaa
Sheraton Coconut Beach in Kapaa is worth going just for their ube pancakes!
Tiptop Cafe in Lihue
Wake Up Delicious in Hanalei
Break + Feast in Koloa

coffee

Wishing Well in Hanalei
Java Kai in Kapaa
Sunrise Coffee in Lihue
Little Fish in Koloa

acai bowls

Wishing Well in Hanalei
Nourish Hanalei in Princeville
Kalalea Juice Hale in Anahola
Aloha Aina in Lihue
Anakes in Koloa
Little Fish in Koloa

smoothies

Kalalea Juice Hale in Anahola
Moloa’a Sunrise in Moloa’a
Anakes in Koloa

Local Kine Plates

Hanalei poke in Hanalei
Wake Up Delicious in Hanalei
Waipouli Cafe in kapaa
Wailua Drive In in Kapaa
Red Eye in Kapaa
Leongs in kapaa
Musubi Truck in Kapaa
Pono Market in Kapaa
Fish Express in Lihue
Kalenas in Lihue
Konohiki in Lihue
Tiptop in Lihue
Marks Place in Lihue
Koloa Fish Market in Koloa
Sueoka’s in Koloa
Japanese Grandma’s Cafe in Hanapepe

Food Trucks

Fresh Bite in Hanalei
Hanalei Taro in Hanalei
Hanalei Poke in Hanalei
Holey Grail in Hanalei
Jimmys in Kapaa
808 Grill in Kapaa
Al Pastor in Kapaa
Tony’s Catch in Kapaa
Musubi Truck in Kapaa
Kickshaws in Koloa
Big Monster Sushi in Koloa
Kaua’i Poke in Lawai

Saimin

(is a noodle soup dish very popular in hawai’i and I highly recommend trying it!)

Hamura in Lihue
Wailua Drive In in Kapaa
Waipouli Cafe in Kapaa

Sushi

The Dolphin in Hanalei
Sushi Girl in Kilauea
Kintaros in Kapaa
Sushi Bushido in Kapaa
Big Monster in Lihue
Kaua’i Sushi Station in Lihue
Stevenson’s Library Grand Hyatt in Poipu
Japanese Grandma’s Cafe in Hanapepe

Poke

Dolphin Fish Market in Hanalei
Whalers in Anahola
Pono Market in Kapaa
Leongs in Kapaa
Lawai Fish in Lihue
Konohiki in Lihue
Fish Express in Lihue
Koloa Fish Market in Koloa
Kaua’i Poke in Lawai

Shave Ice

Ok, so here’s the deal; you have to try shave ice while on island, it is not a snow cone and it is epic! It does not have a D on the end. And lastly, not all shave ice is created equal and life is too precious to waste it on subpar shave ice so here are the only ones I eat –

The Swell in Haena
Wishing well in Hanalei – the organic flavors, not the traditional flavors
Hee Fat in Kapaa – the Hee Fat flavors, not the traditional flavors
Wailua Shave ice in Kapaa
Waikomo in Koloa

hula pie

What is Hula Pie you ask? A decadent creation of Macadamia nut ice cream, cookie crust, fudge, macadamia nuts and whip cream that is every bit as ono (delicious) as it sounds!

Olympic Cafe in Kapaa
Dukes in Lihue
Keokis Paradise in Koloa

ice cream

Lapperts in Princeville and Poipu
Tropical Dreams in Kapaa
Papalani Gelato in Poipu

Malasada

Malasada is a Portuguese fried doughnut like ball of deliciousness rolled in sugar and sometimes filled with tropical fruit or a cream filling like haupia (coconut pudding)

Passion Bakery in Kapaa
VIP Sweet Treats in Kapaa
Island Craves in Kapaa
Aloha Sweet Delights in Kalaheo

dole whip

Ok, I’m just gonna say the thing that you are not expecting to hear… Dole Whip is really not all that and the Dole Companies part in the overthrow of the Hawaiian Kingdom means they don’t really deserve to be celebrated… So here is what you really want and it’s about a million times more epic tasting and healthier!

Kaua’i White Sugar Loaf Pineapple “Phrostie” is heaven in a cup
The Saturday Puhi Market in Lihue is the place to experience them, you’ll thank me later :)!

mai Tai

The quest for the ultimate Mai Tai is a common goal for visitors to Kaua’i and if you’re interested in researching to be ready to cast your vote for Kaua’i’s best Mai Tai here are the top contenders to sample.

Tahiti Nui in Hanalei makes an island style drink everyone raves over
Lava Lava in Kapaa puts a more tropical twist on their version
Merrimans in Poipu is a bit more lime-y and adds lilikoi foam
Beach House in Poipu has a great sunset view and lilikoi foam as well

A note on eating on Kaua’i

Most businesses on island are short staffed and hours and days open can vary from what is listed online or on the door.
Things tend to shut down early here so finding food late at night, or even after 8pm gets to be fairly limiting.

facebook groups for research

So much of our research in life happens on social media now and I’m here to help you narrow down the options and wade through some of the drama and B.S. to get to what you need quicker and easier 🙂

It’s important to note that social media these days, all social media, not just the Kaua’i related corner, can be an “interesting” place and people seem to feel safer to say things in a way I don’t think they would in a face to face real life encounter so if you stumble across some negativity on Facebook just know that in person Kaua’i is very different from social media group Kaua’i.

For Kaua’i wedding and elopement planning this group has everything you need and is dedicated solely to getting married here so you don’t have to wade through thousands of posts on random topics to find wedding info. I was seeing couples post asking wedding questions in the general Kaua’i groups and having people with good intentions who don’t live here give well meaning but illegal, dangerous and just not good or experienced advice and I wanted couples to have a place to get everything they needed, from folks with hundreds of Kaua’i weddings as experience and learn from past Kaua’i brides and grooms.

CHECK OUT MY EPIC FACEBOOK GROUP

For General Kaua’i travel planning these are my fave groups:

Kaua’i Vacation Made By Locals
(Kaua’i Vacation has a moderator who is giving some questionable advice and monopolizing business by blocking competitors so that one is not my fave)
Kaua’i Live Laugh Love
Kaua’i Life

I don’t suggest visitors post in these groups:

Everything Kaua’i
Kaua’i Community
(And the Kauai, Hawaii group (with over 76k members) is total trash – it is full of bots and fake accounts posting misinformation and stolen photos.)

Respecting the Island

The Hawaiian islands are special in ways it’s hard to describe in words alone… and Kaua’i has something a little extra special about it. It’s common to associate the islands with sun and sand and pineapples and call it paradise and love the feeling it gives to those escaping reality for a week… but Hawai’i is not a tourist attraction or a playground, it’s a proud and beautiful kingdom and home to a culture and a people who deserve the utmost respect.

Pono is a beautiful Hawaiian word that is the concept of “righteousness” or living by conscious decision to do the right thing for yourself, for others and for the earth. Pono is also part of the Hawaii state motto, which means “The life of the land is perpetuated in righteousness”.
A beloved kupuna I seek wisdom from shared these beautiful words with me “In the headlong rush to get and have more, so much of the sacred and specialness of these places is being trampled and lost. I humbly ask you to pause and look within your heart for what is pono in all things”

Take the Aloha Pledge – it’s a beautiful way to travel pono and show aloha to Kaua’i – Alohapledge.com

What not to do

I occasionally see visitors make posts asking how to visit respectfully and what annoys the locals and although some of these answers seem like simple common sense and should go without saying, we see them so frequently that the same things are mentioned over and over again so I’ve compiled a list of the most frequent requests locals share:

Parking under no parking signs
Parking in residential areas to access beaches or waterfalls
Stopping in the middle of the road to take pictures
Hiking past “area closed”, “do not enter” or “kapu” signs
Geotagging or sharing location descriptions on social media
Stacking rocks
Taking sand or lava home
Leaving TP on the ground and not practicing leave no trace principles
Driving too fast, especially in local neighborhoods
Making U turns
Crossing roads outside of the crosswalk
Buying single use plastic water bottles – our water is safe and reusable bottles should be used
Sitting on top of picnic tables
Using sunscreen that is not reef safe and spray sunscreen
Walking on, standing on or touching the reef
Approaching or disturbing Monk Seals or Sea Turtles on the beach or in the water
Swimming / snorkeling at unsafe beaches, lifeguarded beaches are best
Not supporting local small businesses and markets
Rude, entitled or impatient behavior

the island playlist

And to get you really feeling those island vibes here are some of the island kine tunes we love to give you the full experience!

tune in now!

If you’ve gotten this far you must really be committed to this epic Kaua’i wedding day and honeymoon and I am so freaking stoked for you!!

I am here if you need anything at all 🙂

contact me to do this epic thing!

Mahalo nui loa

It means the world to me to have you here 🙂

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Sandy Swift Photography – Kaua’i Wedding / Elopement Photographer. The perfect combination of epic scenery and epic moments on Kaua’i Hawai’i – capturing intimate, fun and landscape driven small weddings, elopements, vow renewals, couples and maternity sessions.

KAUA’I ELOPEMENT Guide / SMALL WEDDING AND HONEYMOON GUIDE

The ultimate guide on how to get married on Kaua’i

Finally one from someone who actually lives here, actually eloped here and has helped hundreds of couples elope here too.